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Mamma Mia Has Moved!

2010-04-02T23:11:00.000-04:00

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New Liberty for Kids Fashion

2010-03-22T17:01:00.004-04:00

A few months back, I fell in love with the Stella McCartney line at Gap Baby/Kids. The clothes are a little pricey, and Mia is a rough tumbler on her clothes, so I actually only purchased a few items. Today, I found something comparable in fashion to the Stella line. I ran to Target on my lunch (In search of a pink Zhu Zhu pet... another story for another time) and found... TADA Liberty of London for Target.

I knew I had to come back immediately to report! Apparently, there's a baby line, woman's line, there's bedding, there's teapots, there's... Okay I'm taking this a little far and I imagine you don't want your house to be a paisley mess, but here are just a few of my finds.

So get on over to your local Target and bask in the victory of cool kids clothing for a great Target price. Wow, did I just sound like a commercial.

PLAYGROUND Artsy Fartsy

2010-03-15T17:36:00.002-04:00

If you haven't picked up the latest issue of PLAYGROUND, you should ASAP. This issue is full of "Artsy Fartsy" fun for families in Central Florida. Some of my favorite articles (besides the two I wrote) are "the alternate route" giving parents the low down on schooling options, "College Park... it's just edgy" and of course the fashion spread.

I had the opportunity to experience and write a piece on Orlando Bellydance. A true alternative to the average kids athletic activity. I also immersed myself in the optional art classes the area has to offer for kids. There are just so many cool classes to choose from!

To read the full articles, go to PLAYGROUND's website and download the electronic version. While you're on the site, take a look at the calendar of upcoming events and sign up for a subscription. You know you want to!

Go Ahead... Play With Your Food

2010-03-05T16:18:00.003-05:00

Well what do ya know... It's Foto Friday again. I've fallen slightly behind but the reason is good. Big news for The Mamma Mia Blog coming soon!

I don't have much talent in the kitchen, but over the past four years, Mia has inspired me to do better. I've actually found that cooking is kind of fun. Yes, I said it! Anyway, I've had some great times cooking and baking together with Mia. Well, I call it cooking and baking and she calls it playing with food. Don't get me wrong, we've made cookies solid as a bricks and a cake that had no center, but hey... we've had fun.

Here's a super easy, and emotionally stimulating, recipe to try with your kids.

Emotional Pizza
What you need: Whole grain pita, pizza sauce, mozzarella cheese, veggies to make faces

Mad Pizza Face

Happy Pizza Face

Chef Mia hard at work...

Check out more easy recipes to make with your kids at Family Fun!

I heart PlayFoam

2010-02-26T08:00:00.002-05:00

This lovely Foto Friday is dedicated to the newest addition in Mia's arts and crafts collection, PlayFoam. I don't mind getting messy every now and then, but the fact of the matter is that I live in a 1200 sq. ft. condo (I know, I continuously remind everyone of this.) Messes just seem bigger there. When I get a real house with a real driveway etc., I will blog about big messes in my big house.

This latest and greatest addition is an oldie but definitely a goody. You might have played with PlayFoam as a child, but seriously, this stuff is amazing. I totally forgot just how fun it is. Apparently my family (sans myself) might have a career waiting for them in PlayFoam sculpting. See last photo below. Holy PlayFoam master!

Win It: Berenstain Bears At Orlando Repertory Theatre

2010-02-23T07:46:00.003-05:00

I am extremely excited to announce that the Orlando Repertory Theatre (The REP) will be presenting The Berenstain Bears On Stage: A Bear Country Musical February 27 through March 28. Gotta love the Berenstain Bears!

I'm even more excited to announce that you can win a family four pack from the Mamma Mia blog.

Stan and Jan Berenstain introduced the Berenstain Bears in their 1962 book The Big Honey Hunt. Throughout the last few decades, the Berenstain Bears have been seen in picture books, television shows, toys, and now, on the stage at our local REP.

Showtimes are Saturdays at 11 am and 4 pm and Sundays 2 pm and 5 pm through March 28.

To enter to win the family four pack to the show time of your choice*, email the REP with your contact info by clicking here. I'll be announcing the winner of the tickets next Monday, March 1.

If you want more information on the show or to buy tickets visit The REP's Web site or call 407.896.7665 ext. 1.

*Promo excludes showtimes on Saturday, March 20.

Foto Friday: Feel The Love

2010-02-19T07:30:00.002-05:00

The big V-day was celebrated with lots of love (and food) this year... We ventured out for brunch at a new restaurant location, 310 Lakeside. The restaurant has actually been there for a year, and is literally next door to our building, but we had never been. Food and $3 brunch special sangrias were A.M.A.Z.I.N.G.

Next we journeyed across town to the Desert Lady on W Church Street. If you haven't been to this oasis of sweets, you must go immediately. The atmosphere is calming and I imagine hours could go by while sipping coffee and you'd never know. Sort of like my old days at 3 for 1 happy hours. Anyway, I digress.... These photos will speak for themselves. (Click the Desert Lady link to get a glimpse of the place)

Mean Girls

2010-02-10T17:45:00.017-05:00

Or, purple monsters... For lack of better photo. Anyway, I've never seen the movie Mean Girls, but I can only imagine something similar to what I witnessed in high school. I was never a mean girl, but I witnessed bullying. I had my head unnecessarily shoved into a locker or two in my day. I turned out okay, I think. I certainly do not want my Mia shoving heads into lockers.

A mom from Mia's school informed me the other day that the girls had formed some kind of "club" and they where periodically excluding girls from the group. Mean girls at age 3???

It wasn't JUST Mia, but being part of that group is just as bad! I was in shock, and suddenly had that overwhelming feeling of... "Oh crap, I'm THAT mom whose child is going to act totally different when she steps out of the house."

As I began to research, it seems that I should have caught onto the signs that this "club" thing was coming. Back six months ago, Mia was on an "Okay then I won't be your friend" kick. To me, to her dad, even to the cat... yes, she was threatening her friendship with our cat.

Good news... There are many ways to nip this in the bud. I still have time to straighten out my closeted mean girl and so do you.

Here are some tips from the experts, aka not me:

Make sure your preschooler gets plenty of opportunities to make their own choices and feel powerful in their life. Much like a toddler learning the power of ''no,'' preschoolers abuse social exclusion more if that’s the only time they get to feel powerful.

Help the child identify the cue they missed or mistake they made, by asking something like: "How would you feel if Emma and Jane didn't want you to play on the tire swing with them?" Instead of lecturing with the word "should," offer options the child "could" have taken in the moment.

Sensitize your kiddo to other people's experience by constantly commenting on how others feel so they see things from other people’s viewpoints. Make comments like... “Look, that boy is crying. I wonder why?” or “Laura seemed so happy when you hugged her.” It's crucial that children develop this skill, not just so they turn out nice, but because reading the social cues of others is the only way to function in a complicated social world.

Create an imaginary but similar scenario where the child can make the right choice. For example, you could say, "If you and Danielle were playing in the sandbox and Samantha wanted to play too, what would you say?"

Lastly, give the child "social homework" by asking they practice this new skill, saying: "I want to hear about something you do to include everyone in school tomorrow."

Resources for my research:

Bullying Prevent Begins At Home (A recent Babble article)

Aha! Parenting.com

Ready Set Grow magazine article on cliques and bullying

Foto Friday Late As Heck

2010-02-05T21:45:00.000-05:00

I can't believe I'm that much of a slacker... It is yet another Foto Friday and I haven't even posted in between. I'm slipping. In my defense, it's been a rough week on both the home front and the work front. We are trying to sell our condo and purchase a new home in a crap snap economy. Anyway, I promise to do better. I mean it.

Here are a few photos or fotos as we like to call them on Friday's on the Mamma Mia blog. Mia and I have been big fans of the Sea World annual pass (Play for a day come back all year) for almost four years now. Here are two snapshots from our recent trip to Sea World.

Foto Friday: Another Happy Place in Orlando

2010-01-29T08:02:00.001-05:00

I wrote awhile ago about a Central Florida book store that I considered to be one of my "happy places." I've now added another locale to my list of "happy places."

Mia and I take ballet on Saturday mornings at the Russian Ballet of Orlando. I take an adult class in the studio next to her little ballerina class. Fun stuff. It so happens that the studio is directly across the street from the Drunken Monkey Coffee Bar.

Mia loves this place mostly because she likes to call me a Funky Monkey, but also because it's a cool atmosphere and the food/drinks are awesome. There's a variety of vegan and non-vegan breakfast and lunch foods and yummy coffee and juice drinks. Come join us on Saturday!

V-day Mini-Sessions By Erica Clements... This Weekend!

2010-01-26T07:42:00.005-05:00

Ditch the Dora Valentine cards this year and let Erica Clements, Orlando Photographer create an original Valentine from your child.

Erica has a few Valentine's mini-sessions left for this weekend (Saturday, January 30 and Sunday, January 31) that include:

15 minute studio session
Online ordering gallery
8X10 print
Set of 50 cards and envelopes
$37.50 per additional child, but includes an additional pack of cards

The package price is $75. And, of course there's a special deal for Mamma Mia readers... You will receive an additional 10% off any prints you order outside of the Valentine's Day mini session package.

Space is extremely limited so email Erica ASAP.

Inaugural Foto Friday

2010-01-22T07:32:00.007-05:00

I am the lucky girl who received a fancy shmancy Cannon Rebel for Christmas. As of today, I declare Fridays on the Mamma Mia blog, Foto Friday. Follow my journey as I master the Cannon Rebel and step out of full auto mode. I allowed Mia to caption her photos. Good stuff.

(Oh, and if you are just visiting the blog to get a free subscription to PLAYGROUND Mag and don't really care about me and my Foto Friday... scroll down to the next post for details.)

"It's Me"

"I like to make people laugh, right?"

"I sing and I dance A LOT because it makes me happy."

"Mom, I think I'm dreaming in this one"

Free Subscription to PLAYGROUND Magazine for Mamma Mia Followers

2010-01-14T07:14:00.001-05:00

Wow do I have a deal for you!!! PLAYGROUND Magazine, Central Florida's magazine for modern parents, has offered to provide 2010 subscriptions for followers of the Mamma Mia blog. Seriously, no strings attached.

Now the hard part, or what some of my readers think is the hard part. Actually clicking on the link to the left hand side. You know the one that says FOLLOW THIS BLOG!!!! Yes, friends, I know it's a task, but just click the button.

From there you will be prompted to sign into a Google, Yahoo or Twitter account to verify your request. If you don't have any of these accounts, you can create a Google account on that page... and it takes two seconds.

Once you are officially a "follower" you can email your name, address and the promo code: Mamma Mia to PLAYGROUND (click on PLAYGROUND for the email or email subscriptions@playground-magazine.com) and they will take care of setting you up for your FREE 2010 subscription. Capish?

This offer expires January 31, 2009 or when the subscription request reaches 100... so don't be lazy and get a move on it.

This is an amazing opportunity for Central Florida parents!

Traveling Toddler Style

2010-01-08T16:14:00.000-05:00

Mia first "earned her wings" at three months of age. Planes, trains, automobiles you name it, we've done it. When traveling with a small child you have to be prepared to know that pretty much no one who boards a plane is going to voluntarily choose to sit by you. Never will you hear, "Oooh Can I sit by the small child... they are so cute on planes."

Arriving home from our most recent trip to PA, I realized that Mia is a darn good travel partner. We were delayed, stuck on the tarmac for over an hour, delayed again and experienced major tubulance. Let's just say she gets it. I attribute her behavior to the fact that I never stopped traveling because I was afraid of the journey with child.

For most, myself included, the thought of being confined with a group of people and your screaming child with no exit in site is pretty much torture. But, like I said in a previous post about taking your kids out to eat, you will get through it and in the long run you'll be all the happier.

What to take...
Don't load up with too many items or your carry on bag will bestow great misery upon you. I know because I've done it. Think about the items you would take with you regardless and figure out how to make them kid friendly... download some kid-friendly apps to your iPhone or bring along headphones and utilize the free XM radio. Simple is good. Our mini DVD player, which we purchased for around $75 has a perfect battery life of about four hours. It really is mini.

Plane Travel Tips

If you are traveling alone, I'd advise against bringing the carseat on board. Check it. I watch parents struggle miserably with carseats every time I fly. I never lugged one around and travel life has been good.
Check your stroller at the gate not at the baggage check. The stroller will serve as an extra hand to carry items.
Check out an airport's website before your trip. Some airports, like the Pittsburgh Airport, have a kids area where they can run around and play freely.
Sprite is a treat in our house. Flying means Mia gets to enjoy Sprite. It's a special time and it gives her something to look forward to. Seriously, sad I know, but it works.
If your child is under two, take advantage. Most airlines let babies fly free up till two.
If your child is over two, sign them up for a frequent flyer number with the airlines you fly with. Why shouldn't your tot earn frequent flyer points?

For more tips check out www.flyingwithkids.com.

Bye Bye 09

2009-12-23T23:21:00.000-05:00

December has been a whirlwind month and 2009.... Well, 2009 has been a whirlwind year. Lots of ups and downs in the Mamma Mia world. What fun would it be without a little craziness, right?

I'm taking the next two weeks to relax, reflect and think about how I can make 2010 the best year yet for me, my family and the Mamma Mia blog. You should do the same. Shut down the Tweet Deck, close out of Facebook and take some time to regroup and figure out how you can be a better person, parent, friend, son, daughter, volunteer etc., etc.

If you have any suggestions, comments or thoughts regarding what you've read on Mamma Mia this year or what you'd like to see in the New Year... leave a comment and let me know.

I wish all of you the very happiest of holidays and a very blessed New Year!

Calling Central Florida Babies!

2009-12-11T12:52:00.001-05:00

Hey Central Florida! babytalk magazine is holding an open casting call Saturday, December 19 at LuLu Belle Baby Boutique in Baldwin Park from 10 am - 12 pm. They are looking for baby boys and girls 3 to 18 months who love the camera! Do not miss it!

Erica Clements Photography

2009-12-08T07:34:00.031-05:00

I have never been a fan of the portrait sessions where the photog instantly transports your little one to a snowy meadow or autumn forest by whipping down a backdrop. When Mia was born I convinced myself I would not succumb to the snowy meadow syndrome and instead attempt for the natural environment photos.

I was introduced to local Orlando photographer Erica Clements a year ago. Erica was able to step in and take charge of my quest for "non portrait portraits." She wowed us with our holiday photo last year and again this year. We are downtown living folks so it only made sense to capture our natural craziness in the landscape of downtown Orlando.

Zoolander, I mean Mia, really took charge of this shoot with her poses and facial expressions. We all had a great time being ourselves and letting Erica capture these amazing "non portrait portraits."

Check out more of Erica's fabulous work www.ericaclements.com

Cinderella PLAYGROUND Winter 09

2009-12-01T07:42:00.005-05:00

Have you picked up your copy of PLAYGROUND magazine's winter issue? If you haven't you should. This issue is full of holiday ideas and parenting tips to last all year.

The Cinderella article is just in time for the holidays... when we could all use a little extra help around the house. It's also just in time for 2010. The perfect time for parents to turn over a new leaf in making sure our kids learn to be independent and responsible. What better resolution!!!

Click HERE to download a copy of the latest issue of PLAYGROUND. Check out my Cinderella article on page14!

If downloading is not your style, pick up your copy at one of the distribution points listed on the website, or subscribe and have it delivered to your home.

Giveaway: Tickets to Orlando Rep's Dear Santa

2009-11-23T08:15:00.004-05:00

Ho, ho, ho.... And the holiday giveaways continue. Today Mamma Mia is giving away a family four-pack to the Orlando Repertory Theatre's showing of Dear Santa. The show runs November 20 through December 20 with showtimes on Fridays at 7 pm, Saturdays at 2 and 7 pm and Sundays at 2 pm.

It is the time of year to peek into the magical timeless world of the North Pole, bustling workshops, cheerful elves and even Santa himself. Santa's efficient, yet frenzied Chief of Staff, the ditzy housekeeper with a secret crush, the high-pressure sleigh salesman and the workshop foreman who does not quite command the English language all combine to keep the place running like clockwork, wit the exception of a few mishaps. Soon, a request from one child's letter throws everything off course. The answer lies in rediscovering the Christmas spirit.

Don't miss this holiday show!

How to enter:

To enter to win the tickets simply click here and your entry will be sent directly to the Orlando Repertory Theatre.The winner will be notified on Monday, November 30.

If you don't win the tickets you can always purchase them by visiting the Orlando Repertory website or by calling 407.896.7365 ext. 1.

*Winner can select any date except December 12.

Giveaway: LeapFrog Junior Book Pal Bundle

2009-11-20T08:13:00.003-05:00

I can't even begin to tell you how excited I am to be able to offer one lucky Mamma Mia reader one of LeapFrog's most amazing products! I guess I really don't have to tell you over and over how important reading is for our little ones. But trust me... There are really kids who enter kindergarten who have never picked up a book!

Using the same technology as the Tag™ Reading System, the Tag™ Junior book pal was created to work with, not against that natural urge toddlers' have to explore just about everything. Tag Junior introduces preschool skills through fun book-based activities.

The Tag Junior book pal is easy for parents and children to use. This is important. Mia's received a few learning gifts in the past that I still haven't figured out. Even computer illiterate parents can download audio for up to five books to the book pal, then let their toddlers go to town.

Each Tag Junior board book introduces a different preschool skill including alphabet, counting and social play. There are fun sound effects and open-ended questions that encourage toddlers to take the lead. Open-ended questions and fun sound effects encourage children to take charge, as they touch any part of any page to bring words, pictures and activities to life.

Talk about tracking progress... When a child is through playing, parents can connect the book pal to the online Leapfrog® Learning Path to see progress and download printable activities for more fun.

* Included sampler book, If I Were..., has 16 activities and over 70 audio responses.

What you win:
A LeapFrog Tag Junior Book Pal and two books, ABC Animal Orchestra and Pooh Loves To... This bundle is valued at nearly $57.

How to win:

Become a fan on Leapfrog's Facebook page. You MUST do this in order to qualify as a winner.
Leave a comment on this post. Just be creative.... I leave the comment choice up to you this time.
If you don't have a Google account I can link to, please leave your email in your comment or send it to Mamma Mia directly if you feel uncomfortable leaving it in your comment. If you leave your email in the comment leave it as: youremail (at) emailserver (dot) com. I swear I'm working on an easier way to enter my giveaways so bare with me friends!

Bonus entries:

Follow my blog and leave a comment letting me know. Just click the link to follow on left hand side of this page. (Come on... I need followers!)
Tweet this giveaway and leave a comment with the link.
Follow my blog on FB networked blogs. Soooo EASY!!

More stuff to know:
This giveaway ends at 11:59 pm Eastern Standard Time on November 30. Contest open to the residents of U.S. and Canada only. The winner will be selected through random.org and will have 24 hours to respond with shipping info.

More chances to win:
Fellow mom bloggers are running the same giveaway. Another chance to win, win, win! Yes, I do have a few friends...
Parenting by Trial and Error
Blogging 'Bout Boys
Frisco Kids
Ready Mom
3 Carnations

Giveaway: The Holidays Have Arrived in Wuzzleburg

2009-11-18T07:00:00.001-05:00

During the Halloween season I gave away five copies of Wubbzy's Halloween DVD. Good news Wubbzy fans! Wubbzy's pals want to share five copies of the new Wubbzy holiday collection DVD, Wubbzy's Christmas Adventure with Mamma Mia readers too!

Mia has been loving Wubbzy's Christmas Adventure for about a week now. I have to say the reviews are extremely positive. Lots of laughter is a good thing!

The holidays are on their way, and everyone in Wuzzleburg is getting ready for Winter Wonder Wubb Club fun! In this new DVD, Wubbzy pitches in to decorate the Figgity- Fig Tree, fix Walden's snow sculpture and even solve the mystery of the Snow Shoo-Shoo. There's plenty of singing, dancing, hoopty-horns and slippery sledding, all in the DVD that celebrates the ultimate Wow! Wow! season of caring, sharing and friendship.

What, you ask, do you need to do to be the proud owner of Wubbzy's Christmas Adventure? Leave a comment below telling us why the 2009 holiday season is going to be AWESOME!

All Mamma Mia giveaway winners are selected randomly so your comment will not be judged. Really, how easy is that? You can always email Mamma Mia directly to enter the contest. Five winners will be contacted on Wednesday, December 2.

Check out the Wubbzy's Christmas Adventure on You Tube.

Giveaway: Crazy Love With Michael Buble

2009-11-11T07:00:00.004-05:00

Growing up, Frank Sinatra was often the soundtrack too many a family gathering. So when Michael Buble came on the scene in 2004, I was captivated by his similar sound. His music stirred up all kinds of wonderful memories and emotions for me.

I had the amazing opportunity to hear Michael Buble in 2005 at the historic Wang Theater in Boston. We happened to be there for the weekend and my thrifty man found us last minute tickets. Michael Buble combined with one of the most acoustically magnificent venues... speechless.

So yes, Michael and I have a history. I've been listening to his new CD, Crazy Love, in my office all week... My office is definitely far from the Wang Theater, but the CD has absolutely carried me through a rather hectic and crazy week. The CD rocks! Watch the video for Haven't Met You Yet on You Tube now. I aspire to have this much fun at the grocery store.

Don't take my word this new CD is sweet therapy for your soul. By leaving a comment below you can win your very own copy. Let us know why you're a fan, or why you think you'll be a fan or even why you want to be a fan... be creative. I have five to giveaway so chances are pretty decent you'll be swaying to the Buble beat sooner than you think.

If you don't want to comment below (or don't know how... ahem... mom), but still want to enter you can email Mamma Mia directly. (you'll need to click on Mamma Mia to get to my email, mom.)

Winner will be announced November 25.

There's a lot of great music out there. I'm trying my best to review it all and relay my thoughts to you all on the best of the best. Stay tuned for some kiddie music reviews. Mia and I are having a private kiddie listening party this weekend so stay tuned!

PS~ Sorry for the lacking of accent marks on the Buble. My system was rejecting my attempts.

Drowning in the Sea of Kiddie Art

2009-11-06T15:03:00.001-05:00

I live in 1200 square feet of space with my little family. I don't have room for people let alone space to store the amount of artwork my Mia brings home. Everything is a masterpiece to me, and symbolizes another step in her toddler to big kid journey. The other day Mia showed me a piece of paper and said, "This is a rocket ship." Usually I just say yes it is and move on, but let me tell you... This really was a rocket ship. My kid is drawing real stuff! Milestone moment indeed. How can I not save every single beautiful project?

If you're drowning in a sea of kiddie arts and crafts, fear not. I've been asking around and have come up with some ideas to save space, save sanity and save the art!

The No Hassle Scrap Book. The word scrap book in general kinda scares me, but I'm not sure what other word to use for this. You must first find a non scrap book kind of scrap book. The kind that has plastic sleeves instead of blank pages for decorating. Utilize a book for every two year's of your child's life and slide artwork into the plastic sleeves. There are lots of cool scrap books out there sans tape, paste or glue. Just slide art in the sleeve and viola it's preserved in time. I've found books at local Marshalls, TJ Maxx or even Target.

Family Affair. At the beginning of the month set up a letter sized envelope for each family member... Nana, Pap, Great Auntie etc., etc. Divvy up the artwork between envelopes as you bring it home from school. At the end of the month slap an address on it and send to your relatives who are surely dying for artwork or some kind of creation by your child. Be sure to set one or two masterpieces aside for your file.

Framing. Have you seen a Jackson Pollock piece? Um, yeah... Your child is creating real art that when framed correctly could look pretty cool on your wall. There are always great frames to be found at IKEA.

Go Digital. Take a photo of the artwork and toss the original. As harsh as it sounds, that jpeg is taking up far less space. If you have access to a scanner, you can always scan it straight to your desktop. I found some of my childhood projects last year and did just that.

Halloween in Central Florida

2009-10-27T17:48:00.002-04:00

Looking for some goulish fun this weekend in Central Florida? Gather up your favorite goblins and check out these cool happenings around town.

Sea World Halloween Spooktacular
Enjoy an ocean of fun! Trick-or-treat for goodies, meet amazing sea creatures, catch silly and spooky shows and more. The little goblins can follow their special Spooktacular maps to 15 different treasure stations, get funky with the interactive ice DJ and even meet Count Von Elmo at the Sesame Street Halloween show! Kids are encouraged to come in costume. Dates for this week include the 30 and 31 beginning at noon. Spooktacular is included with park admission. Did I mention FL residents can pay for a day and come back for the rest of the year!

Trick or Treat Safe Zone at Orange County History Center
Visit the Orange County Regional History Center in downtown Orlando on Saturday, October 31 and enjoy three floors of trick or treating, creepy crafts, and games. Don't miss the haunted maze and other surprises! Festivities begin at 11 am and end at 4 pm. Ages 12 and under welcome and must be accompanied by an adult. Best thing about this event. It's FREE!!

Central Florida Zoo Boo Bash
Trick-or-treat in the wildest neighborhood in town during the Central Florida Zoo Boo Bash. It’s a safe, fun, and a not-too-scary event for young and old alike. Kids are invited to bring goodie bags and wear costumes for trick-or-treat stations and face painting. Take a leap into the Bounce House, visit the Pumpkin Patch for a fun photo, and learn about the myths and realities of some misunderstood animals. The fun begins at 9 am on October 31 and ends at 3 pm.

These are just a few cool Halloween events in Central Florida this weekend. Please comment and let us know if you know of any others!

Authentic Parenting

2009-10-16T07:00:00.008-04:00

I have a few friends who are pregnant with baby number one. I can't help but think back to that time myself. I felt good, I felt nervous and I wanted to be the perfect mom. This is why I read book after book "learning" how to be the perfect mom. I paid attention to breastfeeding advocates who wanted me to breastfeed my daughter until she was two, and those who believed that my epidural would surely cause my child and I lifelong harm. I watched in wonder as moms whipped up homemade organic baby food and had their babies fast asleep every night by 7 pm on the dot. I listened to the co-sleepers and wondered how one could survive never having time for themselves... not even while sleeping.

I was in labor with Mia for 30 hours and insisted on pushing forward because I was "smart" and was surely outwitting insurance companies who just wanted me to have a c-section to make money. When at 30 hours, I had a near emergency c-section, I realized that while outsmarting the insurance company, I could have killed myself and my child.

I know many mothers who cried for days when their infant didn't "latch on." Part of me thinks they were crying not because they couldn't breastfeed, but because they felt like a failure to society. That makes me sad. I had many disapproving looks when I supplemented with Mia because I just needed a break. Was it wrong for me to need a break?

A child made a comment to me last week about McDonalds. The mom feverishly explained that they never ever go to McDonalds, it was just a one time thing. Who cares! Kids like a chicken nugget every now and then, and it's not going to kill them.

The other day one of my friends paid me a compliment that might be the
best I have ever received. She said she believed my parenting style was authentic and that I was really "me" as a mom instead of who I "should be." That makes me very happy because it has taken a long time to get here. It has taken a long time to let the outside influences go.

So as parents, let's talk. Let's be honest. Let's admit to our feelings and stop trying to put on a show. We are all different, all babies and children are different, we all need different things to sustain our quality of life. And, it's okay.

Being Green Was Never So Much Fun!

2009-10-09T07:00:00.019-04:00

Sunny days, sweeping the clouds away... Really, it never gets old. I attended my first Sesame Street Live show at the ripe old age of one, and have been a fan ever since. There was a brief period of time where I thought I was too good etc., ect. But now, Sesame Street is part of my life once again and I'm glad.

Last evening Mia and I attended the opening performance of Sesame Street Live's Elmo's Green Thumb at the UCF Arena. (The show's in town through Sunday, October 11.) Elmo's Green Thumb brought the same energy and fun that family's can always expect from Sesame Street Live. The colorful set, special effects, dance and song numbers made for a truly excellent performance.

In the show, Elmo and his friends look for the perfect spot to plant Elmo's sunflower, Sunny. Abby Cadabby tries to set a spell to help Sunnygrow, but in turn shrinks the friends. Being so small allows Elmo and his friends to see the garden from a bugs eye perspective, literally. They have a picnic with ladybugs, dance with the beetles and talk face to face with a bee. The accidental shrinking spell allows them to understand why it is so important to respect the earth and nature around us. In the midst of the fun, there's always a lesson to be learned on Sesame Street!

The set for the show is bright and the effects are the coolest. The music is, as always, amazing with a mix of well-known tunes like "Lady Bug Picnic" and "I Love Trash" and renditions of songs like "New Attitude" and Marvin Gaye's "What's Going On." Only the characters from Sesame Street can get away remixing old songs with new words so parents can get in the groove with their kids!

Sorry for the grainy cell phone photo of Mia. Left my camera in the car and had to depend on the cell. Compliments of my technologically advanced mother, a photo of the two of us at my first Sesame Street Live show. Yep that's me, and as Mia said, "I have a flag."

So, tear, tear... The show brought back many memories and gave me the opportunity to make a new one with Mia. I'm sure this isn't news to anyone. I guess it's what Sesame Street has been doing for years.
The show is at the UCF Arena through Sunday, October 11, so get your tickets! If you're not in Central Florida, find out when Elmo's Green Thumb is coming to a city near you. You don't want to miss this one.

PS~ Telly Monster deserves some major recognition for those toe touches!

Photo Credit: TM/© 2009 Sesame Workshop. All Rights Reserved. Photographs courtesy of VEE Corporation.

Wow Wow Halloween - Wubbzy Goes Boo!

2009-10-01T09:00:00.001-04:00

It's that time of the year again... Costumes, treats, goblins and gouls. Mia has already started toting her trick-or-treat bag around the house in hopes that I might place a goodie into the bag.

Adding to our family's month-long Halloween celebration, one of Mia's fav TV shows, Wow Wow Wubbzy, has released a special Halloween edition, Wubbzy Goes Boo. (You can view the trailor by clicking on the link.) We are looking forward to joining Wubbzy and his friends on a spooky Halloween adventure!

Do you have a special Halloween treat that you remember from childhood. What treats does your child love to receive? I have always been a Nestle Crunch girl and Mia loves her M&M's.

Leave a comment letting us know your favorite Halloween treat and you will be automatically entered to win a copy of the new DVD Wubbzy Goes Boo. I'll announce the winner Friday, October 9th. Remember to leave a link or way to reach you. (I swear I'm working on making it easier to comment!)

The best thing about the Wubbzy Goes Boo giveaway is that there will be five winners! You can gain a bonus entry if you tweet or share this giveaway on Facebook.

Click on the Wubzzy coloring page above to download a full-page printable coloring page.

P is For Pumpkin

2009-09-25T10:00:00.000-04:00

I talk a lot about the combination of motherhood and the perfect career. I admire those who are able to make it happen. Retse Saylor, Orlando graphic designer, has been able to combine the two harmoniously and all the while nurturing her children's creative side.

The super cool t-shirt, shown on the right, was designed by Retse's children and is the fifth shirt in a inspiring Alphabet line! In the spirit of Halloween, Mamma Mia is giving away a P is for Pumpkin t-shirt to one lucky reader.

You know your kiddie will look adorable wearing this t-shirt the entire month of October!

But, I need you to participate just a little... Post your favorite Halloween memory and your email below to enter the giveaway. I'll have my assistant, Miss Mia, draw a name randomly and announce the winner on Monday, October 5.

To check out the entire Alphabet t-shirt line visit www.retsedesignsstore.com. You can also join Retse's facebook fan club to receive special offers on new apparel. I almost forgot to mention, $1 from every shirt sold benefits local schools.

*Shirt comes in sizes 3-6 months to size 6. Retse will substitute alternative alphabet shirt if your size is out of stock in P is for Pumpkin.

iWhat PLAYGROUND Fall 2009

2009-09-21T21:07:00.000-04:00

Have you seen the fall issue of PLAYGROUND magazine? This issue is chalked full of earth inspired living ideas for the entire family.

Yours truly was able to contribute to this amazing issue by writing the iWhat article on page 24. We are all busy, but if you look deep inside, it's truly possible to stay connected without blowing a fuse. My article offers easy tips for parents to allow technology to help not hinder life balance. (If it's possible to plagiarize your own work... I just did.)

Click on the magazine cover or the iWhat article below to download the fall issue of PLAYGROUND. Enjoy!

Pregnancy After Cancer - Who Needs Statistics Anyway!

2009-09-14T10:00:00.000-04:00

This week I welcome Tanya Villar as a Mamma Mia guest blogger. Tanya is a true survivor and a dear friend. You know the kind of friend that would drive five hours in the middle of the night in the rain to pick you up on the side of the road. Yeah… that’s her.

I have always known I wanted to be a mom. Choosing my career as a teacher was a no-brainer knowing that I wanted to spend the maximum amount of time with my future children.

At the age of 25 I was diagnosed with breast cancer and faced with the question, “Do you want to freeze your eggs?” They told me chances of getting pregnant after chemo and other treatments would be slim. I opted out due to financial reasons, and not really knowing if I would live or die. I told the doctor what is meant to be would be. I had a double mastectomy twenty days after that question. It was a scary time. My cancer had started to spread, but not to the stage four. I was a cusp of stage 2/3 cancer.

Five years went by, my cancer was in remission and I met someone that I thought could be “the one.” When we first started dating, I was very open about the potential issues with conceiving. Without a second thought he said, “There is always adoption.” Exactly what I needed to hear!

A year into our relationship, we moved in together and began discussing marriage and children. In October of 2006, we decided to test the odds and try to conceive.

We knew it would be a process, figuring we’d have time to get married and do other things. On December 1, 2006, and four pregnancy tests later (you never quite believe the first two or even three), we found out we were going to be parents. So much for statistics!

Although I was labeled high-risk, I had a perfect pregnancy that resulted in a perfect little boy (all 8lbs 15oz and 21 inches of him) who joined our family on August 13, 2007.

It has now been two years since my son was born, and I am due with child number two at the end of September! I was never a big fan of statistics anyway!

I feel extremely fortunate to have beaten the odds not once, but twice! Motherhood has been the most amazing gift, and I truly appreciate every step of the journey. My son is the most amazing little man. I love him with everything I have. I can’t wait to share my life with his little brother.

If I had based my life on statistics, I would have never been a mother. I am a cancer survivor…but most importantly…I am a mother!

If you are interested in learning more about breast cancer, other amazing survivors or to make a donation visit the Susan G. Komen website.

Mia's Best Seller List

2009-09-09T21:36:00.000-04:00

At my baby shower, a friend asked that everyone bring their favorite childrens book to help build Mia's library. What a fabulous idea that was! Mia had a little library ready to go when she arrived. I created a tiny book shelf for her so that all the books were easily accessible. I even set up a "reading chair" for her that she still uses today.

Mia definitely loves her books. I'm glad she inherited more than just my drama queen persona! Here are a few of her current favorites. I'm sure your little ones will love them just as much!

What are your children's favorite books? Comment and let me know!

Last Minute Labor Day Weekend In Otown

2009-09-03T11:34:00.000-04:00

Hopefully you will depart tomorrow on a glorious Labor Day weekend getaway. If you're like my family, you'll be enjoying a good old fashion "staycation." I've been perusing the web, harassing on Twitter and asking around to find out what's going on this weekend in Orlando. Apparently, we won't be bored! Here are just a few ideas for family fun this weekend.

The NKF Pro Am Surf Festival
This festival taking place at Cocoa Beach Sept. 3-7, attracts amateur and professional competitors from various corners of the world. Be one of the cool spectators relaxing on the beach or participate in activities that include demonstrations, giveaways and music. Visit the website for details and a schedule of events.

Lego Store at Downtown Disney
Specifically for Labor Day weekend, the store is offering their mini build kits. Kids can come from 5 to 7 p.m. and build a complimentary "back to school" Lego set that they can take home! Visitors can take advantage of all the picture spots around the store, including a Lego family, a huge sea serpent and a robot. For $3, visitors can get a personalized Lego block with write and a logo on it in their favorite color.

At the Lego Store, kids can always enjoy the outdoor play area where you can build your own lego model for free. (These blocks have to stay at the store when you are through.) There's also a race track where kids can build cars and race them against each other... also free of charge. The mini playground is super fun for the kiddos too.

Don't forget to bring a photo of your best Lego design. You can enter to win the $5,000 best Lego design contest.

Gatorland $9.99 for Florida Residents
Spend a day with the gators this Labor Day! Gatorland is re-introducing its $9.99 admission price for Florida residents -- adults and children. If you can't get there this weekend, the deal is good through the end of September. Don't miss out on the white alligators, who will only be living at the facility till October.

You'll be hungry after all this fun! Are you a fan of Chick-Fil-A? Wear your team jersey to any Chick-Fil-A on Monday, Labor Day, and get a free classic sandwich. Good stuff.

Have a great holiday weekend! If you have additional holiday weekend ideas, please comment on this post.

When Classics Come To Life On Stage

2009-08-26T10:30:00.000-04:00

Just the other night Mia and I were curled in bed watching as Fern strolled Wilbur through the countryside singing the ever-enchanting “There Must Be Something More.” Mia and I hummed along trying to hit the high notes. Cuddled together, I think we both sort of knew the feeling Fern was experiencing for Wilbur and vice versa. (Sorry for the mush, but this movie really turns on my emotions.)

Sharing classic movies with your child is great, but nothing compares to watching your favorite characters come to life on stage. The Orlando Repertory Theatre performs countless classics throughout the year along with a variety of other shows. Lucky for Mia and I, they will be performing Charlotte’s Web September 12 – October 11. Hooray!

Even better news… My friends at the Repertory Theatre would like to give one Mamma Mia reader tickets to experience the magic of Charlotte’s Web on the date and time of their choice! (Excluding Sept. 26)

Click here to enter the giveaway! Be sure to include your contact information in the email. The winner will be notified next Wednesday, September 2. (show times are Saturdays at 11am and 4pm and Sundays at 2 and 5pm)

Wait theres more! (In true Mamma Mia fashion)

As an added bonus, the theatre is hosting an Opening Day Bash! The event will take place after the 11 am and 4 pm performances on Saturday, September 12. Take the family to the "county fair" in honor of Charlotte's Web, and enjoy face painting, cotton candy, bounce houses, arts, crafts and other activities. You will receive your Bash voucher when you pick up your tickets for either of the opening day performances.

We are fortunate here in Orlando to have the Orlando Repertory Theatre who has a mission to inspire new connections between children, adults, parents and educators through the shared experience of art and literature as theatre.

Not in Orlando and looking to expose your kids to the amazing world of theatre? There are tons of theatre groups and facilities around the globe. I’d be willing to bet there’s one or two in your town! Look for resources at your local library, community theatre or Chamber of Commerce.

Parents' Picks Results Are In!

2009-08-18T10:17:00.001-04:00

Extremely excited to announce, Mamma Mia has been selected as Nickelodeon's Parents' Picks best local parenting blog in Orlando. A big, big thank you to everyone who voted. Find out who took the blue ribbon in your city, by clicking on the Parents' Picks badge.

Here are a few other winners in Orlando's local category:

Best Art Class - Spark! Enrichment Center in Winter Springs
Best Shoe Store - Tiny Toes in Baldwin Park
Best Playground - Lake Eola Park (aka. Mia's stomping grounds)
Best Dance Class - NYC Dance Ocoee
Best Swim Class - Southwest Aquatics in Windermere

Either I'm publishing a darn good blog, or I missed my calling as a politician. Regardless, keep on reading. I'll be posting more often and have plans for some cool giveaways.

What's Your Cause For Play? Comment to Win!

2009-08-06T10:50:00.000-04:00

I remember summer days during my childhood, waking up early and spending the entire day outside riding hot wheels, walking to meet the bookmobile, playing tag and hanging on monkey bars. I had a great play space in a wonderful neighborhood.

Times are different, especially for my own family who depends solely on city parks for our outdoor playtime. I am very thankful that we live close to a great playground that entertains Mia (not to mention myself) for hours on end.

The Campaign
Outdoor play is something near and dear to my heart so I was extremely excited when I found out NESTLÉ CRUNCH® was advocating a “Cause for Play” program. Every child deserves the chance to realize the fun that can take place in the backyard or city park! A great play space and the opportunity to enjoy the outdoors with friends… It’s part of the summer and part of being a kid!

Here’s the lowdown…."Cause for Play" is a partnership between NESTLÉ CRUNCH® and KaBOOM! (KaBOOM! is a national non-profit organization dedicated to bringing play back into the lives of children.) The goal of the campaign is simply to get kids outside and playing!

As part of the campaign, the two organizations are inviting parents, teachers, community organizers and anyone who seeks to inspire children through active play to enter a sweepstakes for a chance to win a residential ready-to-assemble playground, $3500 cash and the opportunity to help designate a $30,000 KaBOOM! playground grant to a deserving community. Take a second to enter. Visit www.NestleCrunch.com/CauseforPlay through October 7, 2009.

Comment To Win!!
So, what’s your family’s “Cause for Play”? NESTLÉ CRUNCH® was kind enough to offer one lucky Mamma Mia reader a “Cause for Play” basket complete with items that provide outdoor fun for kids. Comment on this post letting me know what your family does to advocate outdoor fun and your name will be automatically entered to win the fun-filled basket. (Winner will be announced August 19 on the Mamma Mia blog and through Twitter.)

Free Outdoor Fun
Just when you thought the fun was done… Here are a few ideas for games outside that don’t cost a cent! More play ideas can be found at www.NestleCrunch.com/CauseforPlay. I think you’ll remember a few of these!

Shoe Pile Race --- Getting a big group of kids together can be piles of fun! Ask each child to take off one shoe and put it in a pile. Divide the group into two teams and conduct a race. The first players from each team start by running to the pile of shoes and finding their shoe. They run back and tag their teammates until the team to find all their shoes first wins the race!

Red Rover --- Red Rover, Red Rover, send this classic game on over! This beloved game requires two teams to line up across from each other with arms linked in human chains.
In turn, each team calls a player from the opposing team over to try to break the chain. If the player is successful, he can bring an opponent back to his team. If not, he must remain with the other team. The game continues until all players are on the same team.

Three-legged Race --- A little bit of string can be a lot of fun! This classic game requires an even number of four or more players paired into teams of two. Tie the legs together and the teams are off to the races, and the first team to cross the finish line without falling is the winner!

Take It To The Can

2009-07-28T16:59:00.000-04:00

Long before I ever had a child, I watched in wonder as a child (who I will keep anonymous) unwrapped a piece of candy and handed the wrapper to their mother (who I will keep anonymous.) I was amazed to see the mom, in a zombie like state, walk to the garbage can and throw the wrapper away.

It seemed to me that something was very wrong. Why couldn't this perfectly healthy child walk their little behind over to the garbage and toss the trash?

I'm a mom now, in case you didn't know already. My daughter takes her garbage to the garbage can. She's three and she has been taking her trash to the can for the past year. She also takes her plate to the sink when she's done with dinner, and puts her underwear away after I do the laundry.

Some might think she's a little Cinderella trapped with the wicked step-mom, but that's far from our situation. Mia loves to help out and do things on her own. These little tasks make her feel useful and "grown up."

I know it's our motherly instinct to just naturally do for our children, but next time your kid hands you their garbage tell them to take it to the can! Create a self-sufficient human. Look around, I think you'll agree this world needs more of them.

Grapfruit For Breakfast

2009-07-23T10:28:00.000-04:00

I was in the break room at my office the other morning cutting my daily grapefruit in half when a colleague asked, "You're going to put sugar on that, right?" I shook my head no and received a sour face.

As I sat down in my office, I began the process of cutting the non- cooperative segments of the fruit. I was confronted by another passerby, "Grapefruit is so bitter. How can you eat that! They really are a pain to prepare."

After two grapefruit comments I stopped for a second and thought... They are right. Why do I eat grapefruit everyday? I put forth the effort each morning to transport my grapefruit from home, carefully slice the grapefruit, store the remaining half and then cut each individual segment for consumption. To top it off, I'm not even really a fan of the taste and am usually hungry afterwards. Sure it's good for you, but so is broccoli and I don't eat that for breakfast everyday.

As far back as I can remember, my dad was always up and at em' packing lunches and preparing breakfast each morning with a smile on his face and a bounce in his step. (No, literally, the man was singing zippity do da and meaning it.) Stumbling from my bed, usually laden with some end of the world high school drama, I was presented with a freshly prepared grapefruit along with cereal. Each morning, I ate the grapefruit. I was never overwhelmed by the taste, but enjoyed what my dad had taken the time to prepare for me.

I think I realized back then what a great dad I had been blessed with, but now as a parent myself I realize it even more. He made it his mission to be up at the crack of dawn to spend quality time with his family before he left for work. He prepared breakfast, and gave a valiant attempt at learning more about his brood... albeit the worst time to converse with teenagers, but all the same...

So why do I eat my grapefruit every morning? Because it's a part of what made me who I am today. Because it reminds me of an amazing person I call my father. I'll continue to eat my bitter, hard to cut grapefruit everyday with sheer pride and happiness. Thank you to my colleagues who felt compelled to reveal my true grapefruit subconscious.

Why will your kids eat "grapefruit"? That's deep, right?

And the lucky winner is...

2009-07-17T10:59:00.000-04:00

And the winner of the Target Orlando Family Festival four-pack is... Retse Saylor! Congratulations Retse! We hope to see Restse and family on Saturday for some music and fun.

Special thanks to the Orlando Repertory Theatre for partnering with Mamma Mia for this awesome ticket giveaway. Stay tuned for regular Orlando Repertory Theatre updates here at Mamma Mia.

It's a busy weekend in Orlando! In addition to the festival this weekend, join PLAYGROUND Magazine on Saturday, July 18 and Sunday, July 19 for their annual "Park Avenue Summer Sidewalk Sale" in Winter Park.

Happy Friday Everyone!

Orlando Target Family Festival... Read on to Win Tix

2009-07-13T18:07:00.000-04:00

I'm in New York this week, missing my Mia of course, but lacking time to write. I figured, why not do something fun, fun, fun that requires little thought on my part...

So... Who wants a family four pack to the week-long Target Family Festival at Loch Haven Park? The festival features national kiddie recording artists and fun activities for the entire family. No better way to spend a summer day in Central Florida with the family. For more details click on the flier posted in this entry.

All you have to do is email marketingasst@orlandorep.com with Mamma Mia Promo in the subject line. Be sure to include your name and contact information. I'll announce the lucky winner on Thursday.

Please pass this promo on to friends and family! And even if you don't win, you should still come and hang out with Mia and I this Saturday on opening day!

On another note, it's the last week to vote for your favorite local blog on Nickelodeon's Parents Picks web site. We are in the home stretch! Vote Mamma Mia!

(The family four pack includes all Target Family Festival festivities excluding Thoroughly Modern Millie.)

Hey Orlando Babies! Wanna Be A Star?

2009-07-01T16:49:00.000-04:00

babytalk magazine has relocated to Orlando and needs your super cute baby to strike a pose. Don't be shy!

Email three recent photos of your 6-18 month bundle of joy to sabrina.james@bonniercorp.com for consideration. Don't forget to include date of birth.

If they receive your photos by July 3, your little one could be making their fashion debut in the magazine's fall fashion shoot on July 7.

Send photos ASAP! You know your baby is a SUPERSTAR!!!

Amazing Tybee

2009-06-30T10:30:00.000-04:00

About five hours north of Orlando and 11 hours south of Pittsburgh lies a small island known as Tybee Island, Georgia. This is a place where families reunite, vows are spoken, unique works of art are created and time somehow stands still. This is where I was lucky enough to spend five days mid-June.

Lately, my life consists of a lot of rushing. Rushing to get out the door in the morning, rushing to beat traffic, rushing for this event and that, rushing to make deadline and sadly enough...even
rushing for bedtime.

I'm not sure how all this rushing came about, but I knew it needed to stop.

I'm not sure if it was Tybee or the people who converged there for my cousin's wedding. None-the-less, it was refreshing to reconnect and get back to the real me who doesn't rush through life. (Right: Mia enjoying ice-cream with Nana and Pap)

If you are looking for crystal clear waters and white sandy beaches, don't go to Tybee. If you are looking for posh modern hotels, don't go to Tybee. New age cuisine? Don't go to Tybee.

This locale offers a expansive sandy beach, disappearing quickly and reappearing again as the tide washes in and out. You'll find horseshoe crabs and magnificent shells. The historic lighthouse can be seen from all locations on the island. Restaurants have been there for years and feel more like a cookout than dining out.

Near the pier there are ice-cream shops and pizzerias that could have just opened, or could have opened in 1975. You'd never know. Shops lining the main street have eclectic local art mixed in with touristy toe rings and shell necklaces. This mismatched atmosphere only adds to the character that is Tybee.

Look across the Savannah River and you'll spot Hilton Head, look out to the ocean and you'll always see dolphins, look around you... and you should see family and friends leaving the "rush" behind and reconnecting with what's really important.

Watch Out Now!

2009-06-23T10:30:00.000-04:00

The moment you've all been waiting for... The new and improved Mamma Mia! Whoop! Whoop!

I didn't write this past week because I've been hard at work trying to nail down the "feel" of Mamma Mia. I thought it would be easy, but many hours and one very patient web designer later, here it is. (Thanks Davin!)

What you can expect from the new Mamma Mia... A little bit of this and a little bit of that.

The plan is to hone in on five categories: general mom babble; travels with and without child; Mia's must haves, clothes, products, music etc.; and about-town news, highlighting events and things to do in Central Florida.

The fifth category will be something kind of different. I realize that I am the mother of one pretty crazy and unique toddler. I also realize the diversity of the moms I know and the insight they provide to me. Therefore, once a month, I will have a guest blogger write on my blog to mix things up. Hey... Mia loves all moms, not just Mamma.

So there you have it. All I can say is that the new format inspires me, and I am super excited! It's all about inspiration, and that's why I'm including of photo of my lovely family today... because they inspire me. My sidekick Madison, my "life partner" Marcus and my muse... Mia.

Photos courtesy of Life Focus Photography

Tiny Travelers

2009-06-09T11:00:00.000-04:00

Over the past week, I've mentioned to several people that I will be shipping my youngin off to Pennsylvania for one week this summer to stay with my parents. (Of course I'm not shipping her off on her own. She'll be traveling with Nana, and quite safe I'm sure.)

I've received some mixed reviews...

"Is this the first time you are leaving her for that long?"

"Wow, you must really trust your parents."

I left my daughter for one week when she was 9 months old. I jetted off to Hawaii with my lovey for the Pro-Bowl and a week of island exploration. My father flew to Florida, picked up little Mia and flew her back to Pennsylvania for that week.

The day I dropped Mia and my dad off at the airport, I had a panicked moment when I wanted to run after my dad and all together cancel my trip. But, the logical side of my brain stepped in and said, "This isn't the first time you are going to be away from her, and the longer you wait to create some separation, the harder it is going to be." Off she went, my tiny baby... on a huge plane to Pittsburgh without me.

While in Hawaii we gushed over quite a few babies and missed little Mia a lot. However, we did manage to get along without her that week. Tropical drinks, catamaran boat trips, snorkeling and just relaxing.

So... yes, I have left Mia before. (Although, for a three-year-old she has traveled quite a bit with us as well.) And yes, I do trust my parents. I mean, I turned out okay... sort of.

I grew up in an amazing little town in Pennsylvania that has managed to maintain a "small town USA" atmosphere to the 100th degree. I want my daughter to experience some of the things I was able to experience growing up. I want her to know my parents and the people who made me who I am, and most of all to learn to love that small town in Pennsylvania the way I do.

Perfect timing Dr. Gupta! Just saw a new post from Dr. Gupta about a mom's separation anxiety. Check it out.

You Are Where You Eat

2009-06-02T23:11:00.000-04:00

I like to eat. Actually, I like to eat a lot. Pending budget, our little clan can usually be found eating at Orlando's new restaurants within one week of their opening, or frequenting Orlando's most unique and often overlooked establishments.

Right along with breastfeeding and a colic laden baby, one of my biggest fears while pregnant was that my future culinary experiences would consist of Chick-fil-A and Chuck E Cheese.

In an attempt to save my relationship with food, I decided I would not succumb.

Mia was about three weeks old when we made our way to Numero Uno, my favorite Cuban restaurant. (I know, I didn't hibernate behind closed doors till the eight week shots. Numero Uno was calling for us, and I was quite sure one little trip couldn't hurt.) The first year flew by and before I knew it Mia was sucking on edamame with the girls and I at our favorite sushi restaurant.

There were certainly times that our dining experience with a small child was strained, but we suffered through and Mia learned.... Even if that meant me taking her outside, looking her sternly in the eyes and telling her to shape up or ship out. You might question if a two-year-old would "get it." They do.

So to those future mommy's who think their dining out life is down the tubes. Fret not. Suck it up. You'll have some hard times, but in the end your kid will know how to act in a restaurant... what is acceptable and what is not. Stay strong, and you to can create a napkin in the lap, waiter savvy toddler.

And, it turns out Chuck E Cheese isn't all that bad... Every once in awhile. Compromise, and give your child the best. But, don't give up who you are and what you love, especially when it comes to
your taste buds!

Mia's Orlando Hot Spots:

Bento Sushi
Located in the Plaza downtown. Sushi at a reasonable price, wine and beer. Mia enjoys a bowl of steamed green beans, rice and Japanese ice cream for desert. The eclectic atmosphere and rocks that lie below the table tops will keep little ones enthralled.

Numero Uno
If you blink, you'll miss this hidden gem on Orange Avenue near Michigan. The food is authentic Cuban and delicious! Mia's favorites include anything mommy or daddy order and share with her including (but not limited to) Ropavieja, chicken, tostones, maduros, black beans and rice.

Metro Espresso
Pizzeria with an edge. Metro Espresso serves up pizza, along with salads and other Italian dishes. Mia dines on thin crust pizza, lemonade and half of mom's side salad. Outside seating lets you soak in the personality of Thornton Park.

On a final note, don't forget to vote on Nickelodeon's Parents Picks website for Orlando's best local blog. Spirit fingers!!!

Go To Your Happy Place

2009-05-27T11:00:00.000-04:00

I'm not sure if my first statement will discredit my blog in anyway, but hey... what can I do. I am proud to say one of my all-time favorite movies is Happy Gilmore. (Yes, the corny Adam Sandler movie.) "Go to your happy place!"

I thought I knew my "happy places." I was wrong. An urgent re-evaluation is in order! Life has become so hectic and busy. It has become hard to identify an atmosphere were I feel most relaxed. Yes, I know... floating on a raft in a pool with adult bev in hand. That's definitely one of them. But, really,where is your "happy place"?

With a long "life" to do list and work on my mind, I woke on Memorial Day with a lump in my throat and a very tight chest.

How could I get out of this funk...

Off we went to feed the swans. Ahhh... Euphoria. Tiny goslings swimming by... mommy and daddy handing over tiny pieces of lettuce to their young. Then, swan attack!!!! Apparently we ventured close to the nest. The dad swan was about to lay down the law. Whatever anxiety was starting to diminish came flooding back.

Next stop, Urban Think, the independent book store on Central Blvd. As we entered the store I felt my anxiety start to float away. By the time Mia and I were sitting with tea and gelato discussing the stores unique string of light fixtures, my anxiety was all but gone.

We watched an independent artist stack the shelves with her most recent work, observed people shuffle in and out asking questions about and ordering all types of teas, we listened to the Coffee House music playing on the the store's Sirius and then cuddled in a big comfy chair in the kids section and read the best of the best children's books. I even broke down and wore the Horton ears for a self portrait! (Don't we look happy?)

Although I'd been in this store many times, I never realized it was my "happy place." The stresses and rush of everyday life leaves many of us not knowing what calms us or what might be the natural remedy for a tight chest. Stop for a second and savor the moment. You'll be surprised to find out just where your "happy place" might be and how easy and affordable it is to get there.

Although I'd like to keep my "happy place" to myself, I guess I can share the wealth... Click through to the Urban Think website for a complete list of events and store hours. Your well-being will thank you.

Life Unrehearsed

2009-05-20T10:46:00.000-04:00

My brain is foggy this week. The brain fog is partially from falling down a very steep and slippery set of tile stairs, but mostly because it's clogged up with a lot of memories that had been suppressed for some time.

This weekend, I watched my long time friend marry her childhood sweetheart in Siesta Key, FL. Good stuff. It was the most amazing and non-stressful wedding I've ever attended or even heard of.

At some point over the weekend, the bride to be said to me, "Why am I rehearsing this moment? I don't want to rehearse it, I want it to be real." With that, the rehearsal was cancelled. We even had a non-rehearsal dinner.

All in all, it was a beautiful weekend spent with family and friends. My daughter once again amazes me at her ability to adapt to any situation. Sometimes I wish she "needed" me a little more. Mia was born with no fear and no inhibitions. (That topic will be a blog in itself.)

Over an intimate three days in beautiful Siesta Key, I learned a few things...

1. The best things in life are unrehearsed
2. I have the greatest friends in the world
3. Mia is... the next American Idol
4. Tile stairs = bad news after a fresh rain

Thank you for an amazing weekend of love and fun!

Remember to continue to vote Mamma Mia as the best local blog on Nickelodeon's Parents Picks website. Vote daily!

News Alert: If you are in town this weekend, check out the new Mr. Potato Head exhibit at the Orlando Science Center! Exhibit starts on Saturday.

Vote For The Underdog

2009-05-13T08:53:00.000-04:00

Last evening I had a message on Facebook from one of my fav mommy bloggers in Orlando saying - congrats on the nom for best local blogger.

My reaction.... WHAT???

Low and behold, little old Mamma Mia, the new kid on the block, has been nominated for the title of best local blog in Orlando by Nickelodeon's Parents Picks website

There are seven blogs nominated and they are all fabulous!

Please take a second to go to Nickelodeon's Parents Picks to vote for Mamma Mia, or the mommy blog of your choice. (wink, wink) Be sure to comment and give a rating as well!

A big thank you to all of my Mamma Mia peeps who read the blog every week. I'm still working through overall design of the site, and promise there is so much more to come!

For Local Blog
in Orlando

Three-Year-Old Fashion Police

2009-05-04T21:00:00.000-04:00

"I WANNA WEAR THE BEAUUUUUUUUTIFUL DRESS!!!!"

These are the words that chime out as I pull comfy shorts and matching t-shirt out of Mia's drawer. It's Mom vs. Mia every morning, and it usually does not end well. As a child, I despised wearing puffy frilly dresses and bonnets. I would cry every Sunday before church dreading the frill that awaited me. It itched, it tugged and it made me claustrophobic.

I'm coming to find out Mia has a very different opinion from mine as a child...

Most days, Mia arrives home covered in dirt from head to toe. I learned the hard way that preschool, my friends, is not the place for top fashion. In her first week I saw the massacre of some pretty cute and pricey outfits.

When I arrive early to pick Mia up at school, I sit and watch inconspicuously to see just how she interacts with her preschool peeps.What I notice when I'm in mommy spy mode is that while the little girls are typically sitting at the picnic table coloring or huddled in one of the play houses, Mia is swinging nearly upside down from one of the jungle gyms taunting the kids to "come catch me."

I've invested in cotton "play" dresses that are super cute and totally ruinable. There's no interest in the "play" dresses, but only in the white, white, white organza dress she received as a bday gift. It hangs like a shrine in the closet.

This all leads me up to the dilemma.... Why do you want to wear the beautiful dress?

Doesn't fashion war begin in the tween years? I want Mia to express her "creative" spirit and hate to hinder her exploration of fashion. We can play dress up and I'm not opposed to the big fluffy dresses... just not to school! The war must end.

Stay tuned for next week's blog where Mia critiques my wardrobe and advises I participate in a makeover reality show. Oh, and very happy to have finally used that tween word.

A Mommy's Letter to Her Childhood Self

2009-04-30T11:21:00.000-04:00

I'm keeping a cool journal of "thoughts" for my daughter, which I plan to give her when she's older... maybe teenage years. However, I saw something interesting the other day and began to think... Yes, I was using my brain for good not evil.

What kind of letter would I write to me as a child?

You have many amazing wonderful moments in your future, and quite a few unpleasant obstacles to overcome. Savor those moments, and don't worry what's next. Remember, you determine who you are and what your future holds.

Don't worry about disappointing anyone. Do worry about disappointing yourself because you, as you will come to find out, are your toughest critic. Set your standards high and the respect you deserve will come naturally.

At every bend, there will be people who want to bring you up, recognize those people because they deserve it. Sad to say, but there will be double the number of people who want to bring you down, don't let them win.

Your emotions are going to get the best of you. Your feelings are valid and deserve to be heard and recognized. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Think about what you are saying, especially to your parents who love you.

It's okay to be alone.

You will have a lot of questions and you are going to be confused, well... really confused. Ask questions, and get answers. Don't be afraid. What seems like the end of the world is not. Clear your mind and look at the big picture. It's hard to see, but if you move the junk aside... it's there.

You might not be the best, but it's not a reason to quit or give in. When you fail, use it as a way to lift yourself up instead of put yourself down.

You are worth it, and have what it takes to be the best person you can be and to make a difference in this world. When you feel lost, think about what you truly believe. Tomorrow is another day, and it's never too late to make a change.

PS~ The rap music you are listening to is really not that cool.

The Big Butt Bombshell

2009-04-13T22:00:00.000-04:00

"Mommy, why does that guy have a big butt?"

Yep, I said it... or I should say, my daughter said it. Last week I rushed home from work to take Mia to see the Easter Bunny. Like most days with a budding three-year-old, I had no idea what was in store for me. After spending a little one-on-one time with bunny, we grabbed a quick bite and decided to get some ice cream.

While eating our vanilla cone and discussing who Mia liked better, Miley Cyrus or Hannah Montana, she blurted out this question as a fairly large a man passed by, "Mommy, why does that guy have a big butt?"

What!!!!!! I nearly fell off the bench. Luckily the man was out of ear shot. (Well, I think he was.) Mia was by no means quiet about her question. I was mortified, and Mia could tell. She was upset and embarrassed.

I made an attempt to explain that people come in all shapes and sizes and everyone is different. I told her she could ask as many questions as she wants, but sometimes it's better to wait until we are in private. Whether any of this reasoning sunk into a three-year-old brain, I'm not sure. On our drive home, my mind raced with images of myself in different situations with my child making inappropriate comments.

"Why are your teeth yellow?"

"Why does your belly hang over your pants?"

"Why does your hair stick up?"

Thinking about it in bed that night, I realized Mia was not trying to be mean or nasty. My little girl is simply beginning to notice the differences between people, and that's okay... I think. I just need to come up with a method where she can ask these questions and not have us exiled from friends and family or banned from public spaces... especially those that are home to my favorite clothing stores.

The Gully Fairy Comes To Orlando

2009-04-07T10:00:00.000-04:00

I notice I might just be failing as a blogger in the blogosphere.... that is if your blog is gauged on comments. I am always provided with verbal comments. That's better than electronic, right? Hmmm...

Anyway, Mia celebrated her third bday this weekend. We rocked out with a toddler dance party at a fabulous Orlando venue Vibe Performing Arts. Along with this milestone bday, came the departure of the pacifier aka the gully.

The Gully Fairy came like a thief in the night Saturday night to take the gully from Mia and deliver it to a new baby in need of a gully. When my "big girl" awoke on Sunday morning, she found a beautiful gift left by the Gully Fairy in exchange for our "life support."

The novelty of the Gully Fairy's gift, a Disney princess bracelet, wore off quickly and the amazing fairy we had been chatting about for the past month turned into a figure of evil instead of a Tinkerbell like being.

Sunday was a hard day of withdraws for gully. Mia insisted she was still a baby and needed to have the gully. Sunday night was a late night. And then, the most amazing thing happened. Monday rolled around and the gully was mentioned no more. Mia napped at school with no problem and climbed right into bed Monday night with ease.

I had been dreading the Gully fairy for months and after one day, it was over? How could it be that easy? Regardless, I am happy and my daughter won't be in kindergarten sucking on a gully.

My Little Germ

2009-03-27T09:12:00.000-04:00

Never could I have imagined in my wildest dreams that a child could be sick as often as my child is sick. I've insisted to my doctor that her immune system must have some kind of deficiency, but his simple answer was that she is in preschool and kids are germ magnets.

My child eats healthy, washes her hands constantly, takes vitamins, sleeps well and still she is infected with every germ that comes within a yard of her. (I don't know for sure about the yard thing, but I'm quite sure I'm right.) I have to admit her sick day count skyrocketed when she started preschool in August, but it wasn't like she was in a bubble for the first two years of life. I couldn't sit in the house, so we were on constant playdates and involved in every baby group under the sun. Germs galore! But, apparently not enough of them.

Once again, I'm confused and bewildered... story of my life. Luckily my job is flexible and I can work remotely when need be, but the point is really not missing work, it's the fact that I need my daughter to be healthy. In my medical quests for knowledge, I typically go to my man Dr. Gupta, but I can't find a dang post on children's immune systems. I will defer now to another site with a cut and dry article on toddler's immune systems at Kids and Nutrition. However, I am writing Dr. Gupta to see if he can provide some guidance, and also adding his blog to Mamma Reads.

Can you, my avid reader, provide some insight? Comment... comment... comment...

Do I Make You Sad, Really?

2009-03-17T14:39:00.000-04:00

My daughter has adopted some very creative language as of late. I guess she has always had creative language... speaking in full sentences soon after turning a year old. But, this is different. I must first preface this entry by saying, my daughter has a lot of very nice things to say most of the time, but has somehow picked up some nifty new phrases from somewhere.. ahem... preschool.

These new phrases have caught me off guard and have quite frankly, scared me just a bit.

These phrases come in the form of "You are not my friend!", "I want you to leave", "You make me sad" and the best yet "I'm gonna get rid of you."

Rid of me? Has my child been watching mafia movies on the sly? Sad, I don't want to make her sad. I know, I know, you can't be "friends" with your child or you will be in trouble... and most likely appear on a reality show with each other somewhere down the road. These phrases send me into a nostalgic mode missing my little infant who couldn't express anger in words.

Bottom line, it hurts to hear these things. I guess it especially hurts a first time mom, being caught off guard by the barrage of defensive phrases coming from my sweet little girl's mouth . If only she could understand I am only trying to help her...

Wait a second, this is sounding familiar... could it be that my mother once tried to explain this to me as I was teasing my hair, chewing bubble yum and wondering why she hated me.

Argh... I have no answers. I have a feeling this is the beginning of a journey to find balance in yet another aspect of my life.

Give Birth: Conquer The World

2009-03-03T16:51:00.000-05:00

When I was pregnant, a lot of parents told me the same thing, "Wait till you become a mom, you'll never have time to do anything again." Well, isn't that a great thing to tell someone entering into a new chapter of their life. Yippee! I can't wait! Where do I sign up?

After my daughter was born, things did change. I truly didn't have as much time for myself, but I began to make time for myself that I actually didn't have a reason to make before. (If that makes any sense at all.) I began to realize what my true priorities were and what was truly important in my life. I had a new burst of energy that made me feel like I could conquer the world. (In between naps of course.) For me, I never in my life imagined myself as a mother. Perhaps I had accomplished the one thing I never thought I could do by becoming a mom... so obviously I could do anything, right?

I enjoy reading success stories about mompreneurs. It makes me proud to see other women and mothers taking the world by storm. It might be a child or it might be another life changing event that pops your priorities into place and injects some kind of "I can do anything" germ into your system. Either way, you must check out these fabulous moms in womenenterpreneur.com's series, A Day in the Life, all about mompreneurs. If they can do it, you can do it!

What Is Mommy Guilt?

2009-02-25T09:35:00.000-05:00

A friend of mine recently moved away to Miami for three months after being accepted into an advertising career advancement program. You go girl! What does this have to do with my mommy blog? Well, she was working on a special project about "mommy guilt," and wanted my take on the following video clip:

http://tinyurl.com/mommyguilt

It got me to thinking... first and foremost, what is wrong with the woman in the video, but more about if women really do feel the extreme way this woman feels. In the beginning she makes some sense by talking about why she feels guilty, but then suddenly transitions into what seems like an angry rant about what annoys her about being a mom. Border line schizophrenic? Being a mom is hard stuff. I can't lie about that. It's A LOT harder if you think you are going to be perfect. Pick your battles, let some stuff go and have fun. As cliche as it sounds, someday you really are going to miss this. And, if you are not happy, your kiddos won't be happy. So, take some time to have brunch with the girls, take that weekend trip you've been meaning to take, or simply go to that yoga class that has been on your to do list. Everyone will be much happier all around.

Mamma Mia Brings Sexy and Provocative

2009-02-18T21:30:00.000-05:00

Well, at least I got your attention with the sexy and provocative thing...

Here goes the intro blog... I'm a mom, and not a traditional mother... whatever that is anyway. I'm not married for one. Two, I live in a condo high-rise in the middle of downtown.

I didn't have a video camera monitor when my daughter was a baby, and yep, you guessed it no baby wipe warmer... just used the wipes straight out of the container. I am okay with the five second rule and even extend it a few seconds at times. I realize there are germs in the world and I can't protect my daughter from all of them. From what I understand, they actually build her immune system.

I encourage my daughter to climb higher on the rope climb at the playground and feel proud not scared. And, no my two-year-old is not accepted and enrolled at the town's top private school for pre-k.

I have panic attacks about living in a house in a sub-division that looks like a replica of every other house. I love living walking distance to cafes, book stores, library and groceries. I live with the father of my child and live a married life, sans legal documents from the state of Florida. I work, love my job, love to write and love to dance. I take dance classes, and also participate in some of the greatest living room dance parties you'll ever witness. My dance partners, daddy and baby, are training for a future career on dancing with the stars. I sometimes dance alone, but that's a secret.

A park with a huge lake serves as my child's backyard. Which, I believe is the best kind of backyard. There's an amazing playground, lots of swans and turtles, a great walking path and the best part is that someone else is responsible for landscaping. (Coming from a beautiful rural area in Pennsylvania leaves me with no desire for a rural FL backyard. Rural FL just doesn't do it for me, but I'm bias. Can I declare the beach as rural FL? I shall... Moving on... )

Amongst these things, and many others, that "normal" people might feel I'm "not doing right," there are a lot of amazing things I have shared and plan to share with my daughter. She is the focal point of my life. I have so much fun watching her discover new things and learn about the world. It is my mission to encourage her to accept everyone for who they are and what they believe... to truly appreciate nature and our environment... to not be afraid of taking a big leap, to try new things, learn to love living healthy and to take her out from in front of a droning TV and into a real world of living and first-hand experience.

I could go on, and on, and on, but I won't. I will save my rambling for future entries. My hopes for this blog are mostly to share experiences, entertain and perhaps provide and swap parenting and lifestyle tips with other people, traditional and non-traditional all the same... This blog does not discriminate. Can't wait to have you as an avid reader of my tell-all, unedited mommy blog. (That last sentence was sexy and provocative, right?)

Now, on with the show...